The Refresh & Restore Retreat

Get away to do the work:

So you can get back to doing forever. Together. As best friends. As divine partners

A retreat where we actually do

the work by going deep into

the frameworks that build Godly,

resilient marriages

The Refresh and Restore retreat is a three day, immersive, interactive event where we go beyond giving information, to doing the work. 

We deep dive into the 9 core marital areas (And beyond). Participants leave not just with information but with tools and frameworks to Refresh and to Restore  

Refresh and to Restore their Marriage.

Get away from everything so you can get back to US!

There is time for everything. The challenge most couples have is that they have time for everything (and everyone) BUT themselves. They invest time in other places and not enough in the marriage. At the R&R retreats, couples get time to disconnect …to go deeper…to do the work, and to enjoy each other in beautiful nature. 

Multiple retreats to pick from

Retreat 1

Stop
the Bleeding

This is about addressing the elephant(s) in the room regarding why you are not as connected as you should be as a couple.

1. Communication Management 
2. Conflict Management 
3. Path to Forgiveness & Healing 

Retreat 2

Accelerate
the Healing

This is about really getting on the same page and aligning on what is important to your spouse (and what will unlock your divine partnership) 

4. Needs Management
5. Team Management 
6. Values Management 

Retreat 3

Go
back to Eden

This is about aligning and agreeing with God on His divine version of marriage. Here its about taking our spiritual places as married couples:

7. Spiritual Management  
8. Spiritual Agreement & Unity
9. Divine Intimacy

The R&R Retreat Experience

Part education, part revolution, and a hefty dose of action. Full immersion into 22 hours of business buying tactics spread out over three days.

Retreat 1
Stop the Bleeding

Retreat Sessions & Topics

Sessions:

  • The Mountain of Communication 

  • The 6 Languages for Marital Bliss

  • The F.E.E.L Model

  • The V.V.V Model

  • The Blessing of Conflict 

  • The Elements of Conflict Resolution 

  • 17 Steps to Forgiveness and Healing

Retreat 2
Accelerate the Healing

Retreat Sessions & Topics

Sessions:

  • Together: Not The Same

  • Sex & Intimacy 

  • Sole & Soul Provider 

  • Divine partnership 

  • The R.I.S.E Model (For Wives)

  • The S.A.F.E Model (For Husbands)

  • Values and True Trust

Retreat 3
Back to Eden

Retreat Sessions & Topics

Sessions:

  • A Cross - Shaped Marriage

  • Noisy birds

  • Agreement and Unity 

  • Who touched me

  • Freedom to love

  • Talking animals in marriage

  • Before Restoration there is Revelation

What To Expect At Your Vision Retreat

  • It won’t just be about the sessions. It’ll be about rest, serenity, and peace

  • Prayer and worship continue to be a strong part of the experience.

  • At these retreats, the frameworks come alive. In facilitated conversations, you’ll both be challenged to understand and apply these frameworks

Location:

Tuscarora Retreat Center

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Absolutely. Therapy/Counseling is great. This is a very different experience. Having other couples there in itself starts to deal with the isolation that often weighs couples down. The environment of collective worship and prayer is another element that further breaks the chains that often keep marriages down. Finally, the content is deeply anchored in scripture.

  • That is understandable. Maybe they don't think it's needed. Maybe they have not had great experiences in therapy/counseling before. The key is to communicate a few things. (1) Being in a collective environment with other couples wanting to make their marriages better is often less intimidating than sitting in therapy. (2) The spouse that is hesitant is often the one that feels they are not "heard" in traditional therapy sessions. This type of environment actually works really well because in sessions like this, both spouses will likely hear from the stage, what the other has been trying to say.

  • Sorry that things have gotten that way. But NO. It is not too late. God can restore your marriage no matter how far gone you think it is. This singular event might be one part of a multifaceted approach to getting you better, but it will be an important one. You are not alone and there is still a chance.

  • Absolutely. You know, there is so much content out there that is based on opinions, psychology, movements and so on. That can actually do more damage than help. Learning about God's intention for marriage will probably be the most freeing and most healing experience you will have in your journey of marital restoration. Learning scriptural principles and tools will totally change the conversation for you and accelerate your healing/ restoration. So yes. This will be useful. 

Still have questions?

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